Why will you never be who you want to be?

We all know how we want to be seen by others. Daring, dashing, intelligent, courageous, responsible, whatever it may be. But when rubber meets the road and we are put face to face with the decision of either being that which we say we want or shirk away from it, we more often than not…

Soulforge

Many would ask, ok, if you were to describe in one word what is Love in Life (this site) and who are you, then what would you say? The answer is this: Love in Life is a SOULFORGE and I am the SOULSMITH. My work is the work of Hephaistos (or Vulcan). I work in…

The Middle Way – The way of Love

The nature of a human being can not be discerned by actions alone. One must look deeper, much deeper to glimpse all the myriad of motives, fears, longings and past events, all the network of possibilities that eventually lead to the action observed. In the absence of such probing and understanding, any judgement based on…

Claiming your Godhood

This is not an article for your mortal self! This, this right here is PURE EPICNESS! An ode to your strength, a forever killing of your inner coward! A forever acknowledging that you are, have been and will always be God, but you have acted like a coward not out of fear of not being…

Letter to Her

I long for a love greater than me, greater than any human can conceive. A love than when I encounter it shatters my heart into a million pieces, a love that leaves me perplexed by the precision and the perfection with which it hits me dead center in the core of my being. Yes, this…

Why are you not successful yet? – part 2

It may start off as just a little emotional itch, but your imagination and fantasy is always on overtime asking itself and constructing hypotheses. Then it validates that hypothesis without consulting the present data. It asks itself questions like “What if this *negative state of affairs*  happens?”. And then immediately it assumes that state of…

Why are you not successful yet? – part 1

Why are many people still not successful yet? Whatever the individual specific reasons may be, they can all be summed up into one single phrase: “Because they linked too much pain with success”. I could develop this even further and say they linked too much pain and not enough pleasure, but I know from experience…

Falling in love with yourself made easy

We’ve heard it so many times we’ve grown tired of it, yet somehow we still keep coming back to it as if it were some sort of miracle cure-all. FALL IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF! Ok course set, engines full throttle, now just how the fuck do we do that? What’s the technique? How do we…

5 reasons to be good these days

“Is there any point to being good these days?” an acquaintance of mine asked me. I promised him I would write an article on this topic. Well here it is. Yes, being good, for my mind, is the ONLY way to be. Good natured, good hearted, good humored, this is the way to go if…